It's A Small World After All.

What's the worst part of moving back home after school? Moving back home after school. Not because of the living situation or job search struggle but because of who is there. In school I made connections but made sure they stayed at school. Home? I left for a reason and that reason wasn’t so I can be missed more. It’s as if someone sounded the alarm and yelled I was home, THEN proceeded to pass out weekly schedules of where I would be. Have you caught on yet? I’m talking about exes (boyfriends and special “friends”). The longer I’ve been home, the more guys from my past I’ve come into contact with. While they want to chat it up and rekindle old flames I’m looking for the nearest exit. I’m friendly when I’m bored and my little black book shows that. They don’t get the hint though, even when I say (literally) “I’m not interested in starting anything back up”. They think I’m joking. Nope, I’m not. Can you please just stay back there where I left you. There are only two guys that I understand why they are still around and that is because I entertain the idea. The rest of you need not reapply. What makes this situation even worse is the fact that even if I don’t run into an ex, I meet someone new with the same looks and/or personality. Is this big city really that small that I can only meet guys that remind of other guys or am I a magnet for these “you were fun for a while” guys? I am thoroughly convinced this city breeds the same type of guy, which is all the more reason for me to move as soon as possible. Le sigh.