We have our moments and then there's Jesus. Four girls who are all recent grads of esteemed universities are tossed into the real world and face the trials, tribulations, and hilarity of trying real life. We face all battles with a smile, but even we have to admit we don't know shit.

Wednesday, November 21, 2012

Trust your instincts!


Ladies: your 1st instinct and/or the information you find without them telling you are 95% of the time true.

Fellas: women will find out without you saying anything.

I wish I would have believed what I saw. I wish I would have not believed what you said. I wish the time went spent together was based on honesty. After spending almost a year with a guy I realized it wasn’t working. A month after ending what we had I find out my first instincts was true. Everything he was telling me was a lie.

He was involved in a relationship and now he has become single. A month into talking I asked if he was seeing anyone because I found a picture. He lied and I believed him because that is what I wanted to hear. The blatant truth was revealed to me and I chose not to believe it. I didn’t have to put multiple clues together and create some story yet I was blind to the truth the slapped me in the face. Lesson learned. I’m still young and apparently naïve but no longer will I accept the lies because I don’t want my feelings hurt. In reality they hurt a lot more after time is invested.


Disclaimer: This was written out of anger and frustration.

No comments:

Post a Comment