I’ve never understood why women get mad at the women their
dude or ex is interested in. Sometimes we focus way too much energy on an issue
or assumption that we cannot control. A situation recently occurred that made
me realize that no matter how old we get some people are stuck in their
juvenile ways of handling situations.
I was Facebook messaged by a girl who was involved with a
guy I am talking to (see Ooooo This Bitch is Shaking the Table). She sent me
several lengthy messages in all caps calling me all kinds of names and
threatening me. I have never blatantly disrespected her or called her out of
her name. I haven’t even personally met her and don’t plan to either. Despite
me never replying to any of the messages she continued to send them. My
question is why are you coming to me? You don’t know me, we may have crossed
paths once or twice, without me knowing, but that’s it. Your emotionally
invested rants need to be directed to whom they are about.
The last time I fought over the internet was only once and
it was right before I began high school. I don’t plan on ever doing that again
because it is pointless. I will admit
when I had first read the messages I tried my best to laugh them off but I
became extremely angry due to the lack or reasoning for them.
Ladies AND Gentlemen (fellas y'all do it too), if you have a problem go directly to
the source. Aiming your emotional rants at someone who has no formal
relationship with you will leave you wanting more. I was upset but I woke up
the next morning happy because the only complaint I had was about someone I don’t
know. What’s the point?! Communication is necessary but make sure you are
communicating to the right person. You will get a lot more satisfaction in
knowing there is a chance that person actually cares.
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